Team Yelling Parents! Gather here for a selfie.
I have a question for you.
Why do you think yelling and shouting down the house is the only way to get your kids to obey?
You really think so?
During a session with one of my clients who took part in the Smart Parents Support “No Yelling Challenge”.
She said she joined the challenge because yelling does not work.
In her words.
“I realized that I only yell just to let out my frustration. It doesn’t work 95% percent of the time.
I discovered that each time I yelled at my daughter trying to get her to do something, she just walks away.
I will be thinking she got the message and was going to carry out my instructions.
You can imagine the shock when she comes back few minutes later when I am calmer to ask what exactly I told her to do.
Haaaa! You can imagine my frustration.”
Obviously yelling at her didn’t work. The result is mere waste of time, exhuming negative energy and worse off a confused child who may lose self esteem/confidence if care is not taken”.
See! There is something negative that yelling does to your child(ren) than just getting things done or revering you.
The effects are subtle and hey they have life long consequences.
Let’s not dive into that now.
Download the NO YELLING GUIDE here to get started on your journey to becoming a NO YELLING MOTHER (I know mothers are more guilty😜)